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Preparing for a New York Divorce or Family Law Consultation

Clipboard and pen for preparing consultation notes.

A focused first consultation helps you explain a New York divorce or family law matter clearly, understand the attorney’s approach, and identify appropriate next steps. Organizing a short timeline and a practical list of questions beforehand helps make the conversation more useful.

What to Gather

  • Existing court papers, agreements, judgments, and orders.
  • A short timeline with important dates and approaching deadlines.
  • Key financial information relevant to the issues you expect to discuss.
  • The names of people, businesses, attorneys, and courts involved.
  • A written list of practical concerns, desired outcomes, and questions.

Prepare Efficiently and Share Information Safely

Organize documents so they can be reviewed efficiently, but do not send confidential materials until the firm confirms it can receive them and provides an appropriate delivery method. Be candid about both favorable and unfavorable facts; accurate information helps an attorney assess the matter.

Before the meeting, review how retainer agreements and fees work. If you still need to make an appointment, see how to schedule an initial attorney consultation. This page provides general information only and does not create an attorney-client relationship.